Friday, May 28, 2004

DEATH...............part II

Hmmm so i'm back with my fascination.....ok this time it is something serious (yeah i talk abt serious things too). This thing has been bouncing around in the vaccant space between my ears........

I hope u don't but if u hav lost some one close to u or know some one who has...u mite relate to this....so teh deal is this person u know looses some one close.....and then is informed of the fact tht certain rites need to be performed, fair enuf.......

Bfore u can get to the rites u need to inform every on eu know of the death....ok agreed...now comes the shitty part......u can see ppl aproach the door with a very sad mood ( as expected) as soon as they see tht atleast 1 person can see them (mind u it doesn't matter if they can see the body of the departed) they strt cryin their heart out....but it is for all to see tht even Fardeen Khan cud've cried better....(i dunno if it is just me or ne 1 else also feels tht thr is a civilized way of lettin others know of u'r emotion...i'd preffer if u jst lemme know thn to give me a performance so i realise wot d hell do u want)

Although it is a loss, but the ppl directly affected by it need to brace for impact they are not supposed to look after people who are being looked after by all their SHUBH CHINTAKS.....the thing tht really pisses me off wud be if i dnt know u and u do know me (some how knew the person WE lost) and u come to me as my best frnd who is the only 1 who can console me ...BACK OFF...if i need u'r help i'll ask for it u wanna tell me u r sorry abt the loss TELL ME, dn't dump u'r baggage on me.....

in a few of the western countries it seems after the cremation, the lfe of the departed is celebrated sounds like a reasonable idea, but will have simillar issues too....

I dnt have ne thing against the rites and the things tht need to be done as per the religon wot i guess my point is KNOW tht u r feelin sorry for the dead and the dead must not jump out of the grave for the craving of stranglin u so tht U SHUT UP!!!

5 comments:

hmm.... said...

v v serious thought... but sadly this is the way it happens ! i guess the way ppl behave on such a moment is also a ritual !! seems it is some defined code of conduct, reasons....who knows, who cares !

smart-alecky said...

OMG. Katty, is that you!

really funny the way people react as if they were realy so bothered and upset at having lost a friend whatever he/she was to them.

Hey dude, that SMS writing puts me off. It feels like reading one of those deluge of SMSs that show up in the evening, which I usually delete. Lucky you fella can't delete you blog ;)

You can improve perfection.

blabberash said...

very rightly said but don't you think you expect them to be like that, it's a no-win state if they don't then i'll think that they don't care and they just came to show their face which in fact is what everyone does. Moreover the irritation is moer with ladies cos somehow i seem 90% of indian woman have Masters in CRYING..

Anonymous said...

You should see the movie bollywood calling. There is this british actor who is supposed to work in an indian movie. He gets totaly pissed off when is asked to cry over his brother's lost job.
He asks the director: Sir, Why should I cry ?? I'm not saying one shouldn't cry, its sensitive correct, but only if the situation demands, u are asking me to cry for everything and everybody in the movie. Then the director shows him he's not the only one, the entire village is crying coz his brother lost the job!!!
The camera moves to capture 1000 villagers crying. The director explains, Indian Audience Sire !!

Anonymous said...

LOL at anonymous's comment. Also, I hope it's the same movie, when this guy is doin a romantic scene but doesn't get the feel cos the girl in the viel is actually a bearded guy. Hummor at best. ():)